Next
weekend Bobby was in the yard as it started to rain. He saw that
the tops were not on the Camero. He had been told that he was not to touch
anything on the cars. We had too much invested in them to have them screwed
up. The were completely off limits. Bobby not caring about rules,
went on to put the tops on the car. When Terry realized that it had started
to rain, went outside. Just in time to see Bobby slide the top across the
hood of the car. Terry hollered at him, which in turn Bobby slid the glass
top across the twice more.
Terry
was coming unglued quick. There was not a scratch on his car. Now the top
of the car had at least twenty scratches about six inches long each. And
every one was down to the metal. Terry told Bobby to go into the house
and stay there, and if he ever touched on e of the cars again that he would
regret it.
We were
unable to get Bobby back to school. Because of the crime that sent him
to training school, made him a hazard to the other kids. So they
refused re-enrollment. I took it all the way to the School Superintendent.
Still they refused to allow him back into school. So after speaking with
someone at family court I tried the Alternative School. They told me that
they had no spaces left available and that he would have to wait until
they did. So they put him on the list with six other kids waiting to get
in. I called the Truancy Officer for the county and informed them that
he was not in school and the reasons why. She made a note of the reasons
and said I wouldn't have problems with him being picked up for truancy.
She also recommended that I have him volunteer somewhere to keep him off
the streets during the day. That way there was less of a chance of him
being picked up.
There
was a nursing home on my way to work. So I called and talked to the
head of recreation department to see if they would allow a child of his
age and problems to volunteer. They said they would but that the first
time there was any trouble, he would be history.
So on
my way to work I would drop him off and would pick him up on my way home.
This seemed to be working out. They enjoyed having him around, and
the residents seemed to had taken a real liking to him. I thought finally
we had hit on something right. This would keep him busy until we could
get him back in to school.
About
a month later he showed up at my office at work. I asked what he was doing
there. He told me that him and one of the workers had got into an
argument and that he had quit. I'm thinking wonderful... he now has nothing
to do during the day. Later that evening I called the lady that supervised
Bobby and asked what had happened. She explained that Bobby had been caught
in a patient room going through the drawers for something. But this
particular patient was unable to speak due to a stroke and had shown no
abilities to communicate with anyone for the last year. When he was
confronted, Bobby had taken a nasty attitude and had cussed at everyone
present. She told im that if he was going to act that way then he was no
longer needed or wanted there. And she had him escorted out of the building.
I apologized
for his behavior. She said it wasn't my fault the way he had acted. They
had seen the nice side of him and knew that he could behave. We said our
good-byes and hung up the phone.
